Before You Get Married Tips…

This was a thread by the folloiwng woman and I just bullet proofed it down below.

  1. Talk about Debt
  2. Fully and Willingly Commit to One Another… You’re either in or you’re out.
  3. When and how many kids? (adoption, what if one is infertile)
  4. Talk about 5-10 year timeline regarding career, education, living arrangements.
  5. Levels of Religion. Openness, Lack thereof, core beliefs.
  6. Anger Management Issues. Do either of you struggle with it? Therapy?
  7. Energy, does it match.
  8. Clothing, make sure your expectations match one another.
  9. Sexual Compatibility, be willing to discuss each others needs etc.
  10. Finances how do you intend to manage your money?
  11. Age doesn’t matter too much.
  12. Opposite gender boundaries, what are things either of you are comfortable with when it comes to other people.
  13. Social Media believe it or not this can have its own deal breakers within.
  14. Savings, how much you have, intended salaries and more.
  15. Dying Wishes.
  16. Love is not what keeps relationships going, Its the commitment to love.

As some of you know, I am in a serious relationship and have been for the past 9 months. This is my first one and I don’t claim to be the goddess of romance and hell most of my advice came from other people. I am just sharing what I have learned in all my research of romance.

Can you believe I was that woman that researched everything regarding romance and relationships before I got into one?

Drop some comments below and let me know what you think… how are you on the score factor? Which ones have you discussed with your significant other?

I have about thirteen of them.

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